Thursday, December 26, 2013

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Emily discussing Life issues

Hi, my name is Emily and this is my story. Hope you accept and understand me for who I am. I am not afraid to admit that I am male to female transgender. I knew since I was 4 years old and I am now facing many obstacles and our family is very concerned for our son Matty who is really struggling and will be in a hospital setting for quite some time and then will be attending a residential school so we all have to readjust to this most difficult situation but we feel this is what we have to do to hopefully get him back on track. We love our son so very much and it is so very painful for us. I also am trying to cope as best I can with my personal struggle and also advocate for our son as best I can. He is our son and we love him, accept him for who he is and are trying to get him the help he truly needs.

                                                                Matty and Dad
                                                                   Matty and Dad
                                                                   Matty and Dad
                                                                    Matty and Dad

Matty and Dad 

Matty, Mommy and Dad

lf I can understand and accept myself and just be Emily I will feel much better as I am going through multiple struggles that are literally wearing me down and also breaking my heart. We as a family now are living apart from our son. He needs intensive help but we miss him so much and the reality of not having him in our day to day life is really messing my wife and I up even though I am happy as Emily. Realistically, I can never be happy if my son continues to struggle and I am no doctor so there is very little I can do at this point other than what I have always been doing which is to love my son and be there for him as best I can as his "dad" even if I am Emily. My son loves and accepts me and I love and accept my son unconditionally and so does my wife. We are coping as best we can under these stressful circumstances.

                                            Emily on the birth of our son on December 8, 1998

I am very emotional here talking about my son

Everything about me!

The day that deeply impacted my son in a very severe and awful way. He was only 3 years old and witnessed this all unfold with his mom in the doctor's office after being diagnosed with autism a few months earlier. It devastated the world, us an stole my son's innocence and trust in the world.

                     My Life Experience that needs to be told

The life we live is based on so many factors and influences that shape us and help form our views, opinions and approach to how we live our life and how we conduct ourselves.

I find writing is a very important outlet and it helps me stay focused and directed in my life and it helps me to realize what is most important. Having a son on the autistic spectrum I try to always be there to help him and guide him properly. It seems that sometimes we get caught up in our busy lives that we on occasion lose sight of our true priorities. Having a special needs son does require a great deal of empathy and sensitivity on my part. It also requires a lot of patience and the ability to apportion my time so I am listening to him and providing him with assurance and helping to build his self esteem.

It is my dream that my son will find the inner strength to challenge himself to be his very best and the wisdom to know that he is special and very gifted and that he can do anything he sets his mind to. All those special times spent with very special people in his life hopefully will help him realize how much he is loved and cared for and that he is always our number one priority.

It is my sincere hope that I will always have the privilege of being there for my son and that he will always know that he can count on my wife and I throughout his life.

It is my wish that my son will grow up and have every opportunity he deserves and that he will always know he has great potential and ability and can live a life of great promise and wonder. I want my son to know he does not have to feel alone and different. I want him to realize how great a friend he can be and how very special he truly is.

I pray for my son that things will get a little bit easier for him each and everyday and that he should never get discouraged. He should know that he has us in his life and that we will always be by his side.

A dream, A hope, A wish, A prayer, A life and Autism

It is very important in our lives to dream as young children and to always be encouraged by our parents to reach for the stars in all that we do. When we are kids we are constantly evolving and growing and we are always learning and developing throughout our youth. The time in the life of a young child is very special and it should be filled with hope, optimism, encouragement, enthusiasm, wishful thinking and prayers to God for our child's good health, happiness and a life filled with promise, hope, dreams, vision and self confidence.

It is every parent's hope that their child is healthy and able to develop naturally and adapt to the typical changes that children encounter as they grow. We all are grateful for being blessed with a child in our life and we always want the best for them. If a child is born with autism or some form of disability it means that child will have some challenges ahead in their life but they should have the same dreams and hopes that every child needs to have in their life. My son is autistic and he has challenges that we are trying to help him deal with. At times it seems he will have his share of difficulties and periods of isolation. I only wish that he could realize when he struggles that he has the love and support of his mom and dad and he has many in his corner working to help him.

For many people Autism is not really understood and from outward appearance for the typical person raised in a typical community very difficult to assess. There are many autistic children who from first impression seem normal in ways so when they seem to react out in an inappropriate way to the dismay of others it seems they are defiant and unruly. This for most autistic kids is the furthest from the truth and it seems the parents are thought of as not being able to discipline their children. The reality is that the parents will do anything to help their autistic child and they put so much time, effort and compassion into raising their special child so they can hopefully fit in and have lesser outbursts and meltdowns. It is not easy raising an autistic child and for most families it tests their very limits of patience and endurance and adds a great deal of stress and financial pressure on the family. It is very important to accept the situation and work together with family and all in the support network to help that autistic child find their way in the world.

To an autistic child the world can be a very scary and intimidating place and they would rather live in their little place that is safe and free from confrontation. Autistic children tend to have social difficulties and feel that they can not fit in unfortunately. It takes very committed family and professionals to help address these children with their thoughts and insecurities and help them through these social obstacles.

It is our dreams, hopes, wishes and prayers that help us through these challenging times and give us the insight and knowledge that will help us find the dedication we need to get our autistic child on the right path in their life so they can have the same chances and opportunities that all children deserve in their life.

The one thing I have learned about raising an autistic child is that my sense of life and purpose evolves around my son and everything I do or plan to do is for helping him become better and more self confident. Autistic children do tend to suffer from anxiety and have many challenges and it sometimes can be emotionally very trying in their life and the parent's as well. As a parent I strongly urge you to never give up on your child and to always show compassion and hold on to hope and provide love, support and encouragement. There is nothing like seeing an autistic child blossom and come into their own after realizing the struggles they encounter.

To see an autistic child smile and hear them acknowledge that they feel loved and accepted and to truly help them find something that challenges them and gives them self confidence is the best gift we can ever experience in our life as parents.

The many ups and downs we will encounter as parents raising our children is all worth it if we can set the standard for them so they will benefit and grow and become happy, well balanced, confident and caring young adults ready to take on life's challenges and have dreams, hopes, wishes and vision. I pray everyday for my son to have a wonderful life with Autism.

Dedicated to my son who inspires me everyday.

Edward D. Iannielli III
aka Emily Iannielli

Emily talking about transgender, depression, autism and her son

Emily is unique & has a way about her with her courage & honesty

Sunday, December 22, 2013

Sagamore Children's Psychiatric Hospital in Dix Hills, NY needs our help!!!!!!!

Save Sagamore Hospital in Dix Hills NY, a state funded facility operating for 4 decades dedicated to saving young lives, kids in crisis. My son is currently being treated here for depression, autism and teen age struggles and it is a long term admission to help him. My son is my life, our life and we need to see he gets the proper medical treatment he needs. This facility is a Godsend but is facing the very possibility of being closed down as you can see by the writings shared here and if that happens many young children will be at risk including my son, many fine doctors and medical staff will be out of work and an institution that stands for saving young children's lives would be lost because of a cutback by NY because government feels saving young kids lives is not top priority and balancing an unorganized and purposeless budget is more important than saving this fine institution in carrying out what it was originally created for and stood for for 4 decades of valuable service which is to save the lives of young children, tweens and teens in crisis and are at risk of getting worse or far more tragic, facing the very real threat of suicide for lack of necessary medical intevention!

After all what is most important is saving these kids rather than saving a few bucks to misappropriate to irrelevant causes that mean nothing. Kids are far more important than money! NYS, Please come to reality and make the right decision which is to save these kids without question, let this facility continue to do what it is meant to do and let these doctors stay and commit to saving these young children's lives. Trust me on this! Kids health are far more important. My son could have been dead if it wasn't for Sagamore Children's Psychiatric and if you take this away you will be putting my son at risk in addition to all these kids needing help. How can that be? I can't even imagine the repercussions felt by all if New York goes through with the planned closing of the facility but I know it will affect many and also put many young kids lives in peril. Leave Sagamore to do what it is meant to, save young lives. It is much more needed and it is worth the funding. If you close it then I will lose all faith in New York, Government and mankind for its heartlessness and lack of conscience. I pray for my son, these kids, the wonderful doctors and dedicated staff and the facility to stay and continue to save young lives. My son, Matty needs this place.

Autism is a very difficult thing to come to terms with, especially when you learn your child has recently been diagnosed with it since age of 3. I am a blogger and started writing about my son and Autism. My wife and I are trying our very best to help our son. Recently he was admitted to South Oaks hospital where he spent a month and has now been transferred to Sagamore Children's Psychiatric Hospital where he so desperately needs to be and for a longer stay so the doctors can properly monitor him, observe him and diagnose him as he also seems to be battling other issues in addition to his autism.

I started a blog called "A Father's Love, My Son and Autism" to help me cope and to also try to understand it so we could try our best to help and advocate for our son. I also have battled with my own personal struggles with depression, male to female transgender issues which I knew at age 4 when I identified as a "girl" and knew it in my mind heart and soul.

My link to my blog is:

A link to Emily's Blog:

A link to Matty's Blog:

My Blog on Word Press

My Hubpages:

My Pin Interest

My Ezine writings

Emily on Youtube

Ed on Youtube

Emily Flickr Page

Emily's About me page


A special video from my youtube channel

Save Sagamore on Facebook
Save Sagamore Children's Psychiatric Hospital on Bing Search

I am working to do my part in advocating for my son, for Sagamore and all the children, families and Medical staff who will be devastated if New York decides to close this medical facility.

Sagamore Children's Psychiatric Hospital

My friends who I have reached out to on Facebook:

Emily IannielliEdward D Iannielli IIIMatty IannielliAutism Support NetworkAutism InsightArtists and AutismAutism MothersAssociation of Transgender ProfessionalsA Transgender LifeBrooke Cerda Guzm├ín Trans-Siberian OrchestraSelena GarciaThe AccidentalsThe All-American RejectsGirls AloudGirls,AutismRecovers KeepHopeAmerican Foundation for Suicide PreventionSuicide AwarenessBETH ISRAEL HOSPITALBeth Karrass BakerBellmore JfkMary Bell,Dream AriaJimmy PageTHE AUTISM FILE MAGAZINEThe New York TimesThe BeatlesO, The Oprah MagazineKemp HannonAnne HathawayPM PediatricsMary J. BligeKate MurrayNassau Community College,Hofstra UniversityHofstra PrideVirginia TechMetsCounting CrowsThe Beach BoysAutismAutism Spectrum Quarterly MagazineMental Health FoundationRethink Mental IllnessMindz Matter Mental HealthJanet Rose SchenkelLeon KweitLawrence KweitHope And Service To Mankind FoundationFace to FaceMark PlaxenDavid Marc OchserRachel Fishman FischerCassadee PopeHey MondaySandra LeeAlan J BerkowskyAlan FleishmanThe EasybeatsThe CarsBelindaIsabel BrocketBELINDA CARLISLE OFFICIALThe SaturdaysThe RamonesMichigan RadioProtective LifeLifecare CentreSanta ClausOriginal Santa-MailMajor LeagueThe BaseballsEpilepsy VictoriaBlack Eyed PeasMarty SchindelheimBari LewisKaren Plafker Szteinberg,Dorothy AngeromeRaymond Edward HiggenbottomAutistas Angeles Karen HalaburaAngels of ChangeDestiny's ChildDestiny NickelsenSaving Grace,Apostolos ChristodoulouMartine MarnyTed CanovaBrian TeasonMichael Kors,Mike AlkinJeffrey ArztNancy Rusinoff NassauKelly MantleSonny GriffoCher,Josh GrobanBette MidlerBarbra StreisandSuicide SilenceRobert Pattinson News from The StirAndrew CuomoGovernor Andrew CuomoGovernor Jan Brewer

Citifield first visit with family. Matty loved it!

I have been a Met fan since 1969 and remember when they won the world series against the Baltimore Orioles. My mother transferred her allegiance to the Mets because her team, the Brooklyn Dodgers moved west To Los Angeles, Cslifornia. Citifield is the new ballpark replacing Shea an my son, Matty still refers the new stadium as Shea stadium. Matty also is a met fan just like me.


Fun day at Citifield, our very first time there.

Sunday, December 15, 2013

Dream Aria

Dream Aria is a band close to my heart as I met them on Myspace and we have developed a nice friendship and I am in love with the artists and their music. It helps me since I have been going through so much hardship and they reached out to me to come join them for New Year's in Toronto, where they live and are based in. I am so excited to see them and share my interest with them of their music and talk about their venues and if they plan to perform in the States in 2014. They are a great band. I am so happy to play their music and must say they are one of my favorite bands! Looking forward to seeing then on New Years Eve and watch them perform live in Toronto!!!

There’s something for every music lover in DREAM ARIA…
DREAM ARIA is Donald Stagg (composer, lyrics, keyboards, arranger), Garry Flint (producer, drums, engineer), Ann Burstyn (vocals, vocal melodies, lyrics, artork), Jon  (bass, back-up vocals). Dream Aria’s mission will continue to be creating music without rules or boundaries that takes you on a far away journey

Love you and the band Dream Aria!
Emily Iannielli